Are there any feminist men out there?

I only ever seem to meet men who have really old-fashioned ideas about women; that they all want to get married and have babies as soon as possible, that they want to trap and control a man, that they're indecisive and that certain behaviour (such as being useless with money) is 'typical' of women. Are there any men out there who don't believe these things and actually think women are not defined entirely by their gender and might actually have their own quirks and foibles that make them human? And, if so, where are they?